In case anyone wanted to know

Found this draft and thought I'd post, although it's a little tardy.

Took the kids to see Wall-E and there was some good and some bad. The good part was that the kids wolfed down a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and a bag of carrot sticks by the close of the previews. Then, we lasted about 20 minutes into Wall-E before the kids looked at me pleadingly and asked to leave.

In my opinion, the lack of dialogue and effort one must put in to follow the nuances of the robots’ “body language” was just too tough for toddlers. I wasn’t entirely surprised, and knew it had been a gamble. Luckily, the theater I went to gave me three rain check coupons so we could try again with a different movie. And, of course we will. They have a movie goober for a mom.

Dear Rep Party: You see our lips moving, but do you hear what we're saying?

I’ve been stewing since Friday’s U.S. Republican VP candidate was announced. At first, emotionally, I was just infuriated because it felt like “Hey look, here’s a HRC replacement for you women out there” and Palin is no HRC. And now I’ve read all the rationales around why McCain opted to move forward with Palin, but I’m still stuck in place, processing my initial gut reactions.

Despite all the other reasons that may or not be obvious, three days later his choice still feels insulting – not because I believe the Republicans think women in general are “stupid” or that we’re blind enough to vote by chromosome only, as some have lamented. I get that the R party needed someone to woo back those on the far right and that there was a "marketing opportunity" to seize with HRC out of the '08 race.

What is so infuriating to me is the feeling that they are using Palin to reach out to HRC "fans" but obviously weren’t listening to WHAT women wanted and saw in HRC that inspired them. The Republican party just seemed to react to the fact that women were talking, and talking LOUD.

I’m still processing the information disseminating from both camps daily, but I already know that I won’t be voting for the McCain/Palin ticket. I knew that before Palin joined the camp, but now I am actually a bit frightened about what our family, and my daughter specifically, may face in the years to come if McCain is elected with Palin by his side. We're basically opposites when it comes to ideology.

Don’t get me wrong… as a woman, I respect what Palin has done in her career and obviously there's a number of people that support her in Alaska, but I don’t want the career she's built based on the foundation of her personal convictions affecting mine. And that's my choice.

However, to reiterate my main frustration at the Republican party again… they just don’t seem to get that “a woman” isn’t what women are looking for, especially not disaffected HRC supporters. Many of us are looking for an EXCEPTIONAL woman that believes in family and women’s rights – in the workplace and out.

Help?! Fashion emergency!

I need a simple and cute black skirt. I've been looking for that "perfect" skirt for ~a year and I just haven't felt the love. So, now I am asking for help.

Below, you'll find my paramters for the "perfect" skirt:
- It should fall just past the knee.
- I want to be able to wear it in Summer, but also in Winter with boots.
- I'm not a "flowy" type of person, so nothing too "gypsy-ish" but I don't want to have to diet before I wear it either.
- I don't mind some sort of trim or decor, but nothing over the top. A tie, ribbon detail, etc. - all good. A burnout or some sort of flower attachment? Probably not.
- As for budget, please keep in mind I love the styles of Banana Republic, BCBG and the like but at a TJ Maxx or eBay price. :)

I've almost given up... Anyone have any advice?

ps the one in the photo...it's close. But I don't like the "ruffle" at the bottom.

A little about home

Tonight I stumbled upon a Facebook group called “Bitch, please…I’m from Ketchum”. The name initially put me off. But slowly but surely my local Idaho brethren have been joining the ranks of Facebook and even though this is a teeny tiny town, I don’t get out much. Cause, you know, I have two kids, a FT job and a house that always seems to need cleaning and/or fixing. Actually, I probably could have stopped at “two kids”.

Anyway, I went to the group anyway thinking I might find some of my friends from town. When I got there, the group description cracked me up. It was a sincerely honest one of those “you know you’re from Ketchum when…” lists. It offers such a peek into what this place is all about that I decided to paste it here (for you non-Facebookers).

For people who grew up in Ketchum. As much as things change they never really do. You know grew up in Ketchum/Sun Valley if…

-You see your high school teachers at the bar.
-You have a mug.
-You know where to get your bell rung on the first.
-If you play buck hunter and don’t get the high score, you know the initials of the person who did.
-You revolve your work and sleep schedule around both dollar nights.
-Your garage looks like Cabellas, REI, and Woodside RV all threw up in it.
-You can find a poachable hot tub anytime you wish.
-You know crocs are lame, but still wear them to the bar.
-You know that you don’t lose your girlfriend you just lose your turn.
-You think chili in a bun and air-heads is the best ski lunch ever.
-You rarely pay full price for anything, and when you do you feel ripped off.
-You never pay covers.
-You come home every Christmas.
-You can’t give directions based on street names because you don’t know them.
-You have a conversation with every other person you see in the grocery store.
-You have a cruiser bike.
-You know that beer is as good as cash.
-You never worry about where you will stay when the bars close because that shit will just work itself out.
-You thought the fire was cool because it made all tourists leave, and thinned out the backside.
-You have a Smith sticker on everything you own.
-You know that when you’re done working landscaping, food service, or retail, you’ll become a real-estate agent.
-You remember Dawg Gone Good Teriyaki, The Burger Haus, The Western, The Buffalo Café, Louie's, Buckwheats, and the Saltwater Grill.
-Although there are lots of new buildings in town you haven’t been inside any of them.
-You never said hella and never will.
-The bands you listen to have your friends in them.
-You know multiple people who met their spouse on the dance floor at Whiskey’s.
-You understand even half of these.

An HPD and proud of it

If you’ve been reading this site for a long time, or from front to end (but let’s be honest here – neither of those likely apply) you’ll know that I am a complete Harry Potter dork, or as my husband likes to refer to me – an HPD. Luckily, there are a few others that I spend a considerable amount of my time with that are also HPDs, like Laptop Television Mom for one.

Well, if you’re an HPD you’ll know that today is a VERY exciting day! The trailer for the Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince movie was released today. Now that I've been teased, the 115 day countdown to the theater release seems further away than it was this morning!

Also, if you’re a HPD and this post just isn’t enough for you, check out these other gems:
Veritaserum - Everything Harry Potter - Book 7, Movie 5 News
Harry Potter Books, Movies, and More - The Leaky Cauldron
HPANA - Harry Potter News and Rumors - Book 7, Movie 6 and More
HARRY POTTER STREET

And without further distraction...the trailer to Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince!

Shel Silverstein 2.0(08)

Last night my daughter and I just finished the last poem from Shel Silverstein’s Falling Up. I’ve been waiting for ~20 years to have (a legitimate) reason to read Silverstein again. I L-O-V-E-D Where the Sidewalk Ends growing up. Until I started reading Judy Blume (Tales of a Forth Grade Nothing was a fave) Sidewalk was my favorite book.

My daughter, who will be five this Fall, loved Falling Up and now wants to start right back at the beginning and read it again. My next eBay Hunt (a favorite pastime of mine) will be for a good looking edition of Where the Sidewalk Ends.

I would love suggestions for other books to engage our daughter too. Suggestions from the potato gallery?

It was only a few days!?

Last week I went away for a few days to spend some time in our SF office and also to attend the BlogHer08 conference. When I came back I could have sworn that my son grew two inches and my daughter was three years older.

Okay, maybe that’s a little bit of an exaggeration. But for reals, they were doing things they weren’t doing before I left.

My daughter was chewing gum (YES, it was sugar free).

My son can fill his glass with water from the fridge now with absolutely no assistance at all.

My daughter was brushing her own hair after her showers.

My son now wants and asks to go fishing (a lot).

These may seem trivial, but over the course of their little lives I haven’t really missed any milestones by being away. I wouldn’t call chewing gum a milestone, per se, but it’s amazing to me just how quickly these beautiful little people change.

Things I learned at Blogher…a preliminary list from the hollow corner of my processing brain.

Real women don’t eat danish

Just when you think that you’ve already surrounded yourself with your closest friends, you can find more

It’s great to think and talk, but it’s also important to DO

It’s obvious, but I’ll still say it; all women have something very valuable to say and contribute

The # of Bloghims at Blogher is growing

If you’re going to schedule a politics talk with members of the McCain/Obama camps, you better book a BIG room

Women LOVE their swag, coffee and Sesame Street

There were some amazingly brave women at Blogher08

Oh, and real women don’t eat danish

Political bling for your rig

Today I received our free Obama ’08 bumper sticker from MoveOn.org. If you want the latest “it accessory” for your wheels (it can be a bike, scooter, etc.) you too can nab a free one by clicking here.

BlogHer: One of the most eco-friendly tech conferences I’ve been a part of

Next Wednesday I’ll be leaving scorching hot Idaho for foggy and cold San Francisco. As if I didn’t get enough winter already this year. (Winter pretty much lasts from Oct. – May in ID.) Ahhh, well it’s a good thing then that I never put away my massive collection of pashminas and scarves then. But, it’s all worth it because I’m heading West again for the BlogHer conference.

This will be my first time heading to BlogHer and while I am excited about the lineup of speakers and topics, so far I am most pleasantly surprised by how environmentally minded the show organizers are. In the pre-conference guide it communicates an effort toward going green. I’m not an environmentalist by any means, although I DID go see An Inconvenient Truth in the theater which “scared” our family into trying to do its part. But maybe my “ignorance” is why all these efforts jumped out at me.

Some of the “little things” BlogHer is doing on this front:
* They won’t be providing bottled water and are asking folks bring their own reusable containers for water while at the show.
* They asked the venue, the Westin St. Francis on Union Sqr, to increase the number of recycling receptacles provided so that attendees will find it even more convenient to recycle.
* In its pre-conference guide it urges attendees to “power down, don’t just 'sleep'” when it comes to charging laptops, cell phones, cameras, etc. because leaving those items plugged in – even fully charged – still burns energy. The guide includes the quote that in 2010, according to estimates made by the DoE, 20 percent of each American’s electricity bill will come from appliances on standby.
* Their conference totes are reusable organic totes, perfect for a city with a ban on plastic grocery bags.
* Michelin, a BlogHer sponsor, is committed to offsetting 200 tons of CO2 to help w environmental impact of the conference.

For me, I’ll probably learn as much about making changes to my every day life to be more eco-friendly as I will about blogging.

The case of the missing ___________ (insert any clothing item you want). SOLVED.

For as long as my kids have been going to preschool we’ve had casualties. You know, personal items that went to school with them and then never came back.

Last Summer it was a favorite bathing suit that went missing at the end of June. Cost? A sad camper for basically all of an Idaho Summer (July and August) and a tired-out mom as a result. (everyone knows listening and enduring whining is very tiring.) And this Winter is was numerous gloves, and it always seemed to be the left one so we couldn’t even mix and match. The tipping point was a missing sparkle shoe…

So, after some frustrating losses and expensive replacements I decided some sort of action was in order. I went on eBay and bought some iron on “transfers” with our last name on them and spent an hour or two applying them to all the items that we definitely didn’t want lost – snow suits, jackets, etc. It was okay for things that didn’t get washed much, like jackets, etc. but the labels fell right off everything else after the second wash (if not the first). So, I resigned myself to thinking that we would just lose some things… until I happened across one of my best finds ever.

The labels from Stuck on You are fun and they were specifically created and designed for kids’ clothing, shoes, and other belongings. They had identification labels and nametags for everything imaginable…backpack tags, vinyl stickers for shoes and/or lunchboxes, allergy labels and, of course, iron on name labels. They were cute, and I was desperate. So I ordered two sets of clothing dots, basically iron on labels ($18.95 per set of 50) and one set of sticky dots shoe dots ($18.95 for a set of 20).

It may seem a lot to pay for some “stickers”. Instead, the transfers are one of the best investments I’ve made “AK” (After Kids). The Summer Program at our preschool isn’t exactly staffed by the elite like it is in the Fall, and so lost items during this season are usually at a peak. And despite the fact that we used to lose about one item a week (some would find their way back and others lost in the abyss forever), so far this summer we haven’t had one lost one thing. Everything has found its way back into the appropriate cubby by day’s end and I have to think it’s because everything has been labeled and ownership is obvious.

I’ve never done an “official” product review before this, but these labels are something I can definitely put my seal of approval on. If you have a kid that goes to daycare/school somewhere outside of your home, I highly recommend the Stuck on You labels.

Sometimes dreams still come true in America

Anyong!

Defamer is reporting, based on a recent interview with Jason Bateman, that there is indeed an Arrested Development film coming. According to the interview, they’ll film next year. For me, this rivals the excitement and anticipation of the final Harry Potter installment release. That’s saying A LOT.

Can’t wait for more news on this in the form of script details, a trailer, release date, etc. If any of you hear anything…please do share!

For now, I leave you with a great montage that will tickle the heart (yea, i said that) and make you cackle out loud if you have even just one piece of funny bone in your body.

flip flops for heels

I traded my flip flops for my "city apparel" this week. Last night I attended the DEMO Alum event in S.F. and it was a rockin time. Fitting, considering it was hosted at the Rockit Room.

Nicole Richie made me feel normal today

While I definitely am not further pointing out perceived shortcomings on Nicole Richie’s appearance like Perez did, I have to say seeing this photo of her w some unkempt hair was a relief. I’ve been wearing a sloppy bun or ponytail in my hair for about four years now. Yup, you remember right, my oldest kid is four. Sometimes there are just cooler things to do than your hair when you have an infant and have some time, like go shopping, take a shower or get some sleep.

Congrats, Mister David Cook

Say hello to stardom and an absolute goodbye to your privacy.

The headlines have already begun...
David Cook Dating Lacey Schwimmer?
David Cook is 'Going to Disney World!'
And now Perez is writing about his win Note that Perez posted at 10:39 pm and by midnight there were already 1,185 comments. Wow. Or as Joey might say, Wooooah.

Here's a peek at some of that charisma, and probably one of his very first hefty endorsement paychecks.

As close as I'll ever get to Oscar

FilmStew gave me a wonderful present this week.

Diablo Cody, the Oscar- winning director (for Juno, have ya heard of it?), has her own Twitter account and I’ve been following it for almost a week now. Like most Twitterites, she discloses a lot – personal details, thoughts on the things surrounding her life at the moment – and she also reveals very fun things about the activities and goings on in her life, professionally. For me, a self professed movie goober, it's like being a third-removed cousin from the movie set and it feels awesome.

So now I’ve become like the Twitterazi, following her moves on Twitter, looking for my glimpse into her life.

Booooo Kathie Lee Gifford

There will always be differing opinions within the mommy blogger circle on how much exposure, if any, of our kids is too much. That topic is fodder for one million (pinky to lip) blog posts, but that’s not what this one is about.

NBC’s Today show was set to run a segment on mommy bloggers this morning. I’d heard about it through a colleague of mine, LTV Mom, who contributes to the Silicon Valley Moms Blog and I tuned in so that I could learn more about it and see (instead of just read) some of the women that pioneered the phenomenon.

What I ended up watching got me very riled up. Kathie Lee Gifford and Hoda Kotb seemed determined to turn what I thought would be an informative and interesting segment into a frustrating viewer experience.

On the Silicon Valley Moms Blog, tied to the post highlighting the segment airing, there is some chatter in the comments section about KLG and her behavior on the segment. One hot point was her seeming “attack” on guest Heather Armstrong, a very successful mommy blogger.

My synopsis of how it all went down:

First Kathie Lee admitted she doesn’t know how to use a computer. Fine. Weird for anyone in the professional world these days, but fine. She then seemed to not know the format for the segment, forgetting that pre-taped footage would air before the interview with Armstrong making the intro choppy. Then Kathie Lee butchered her first question for Armstrong based on her complete ignorance of all things computer related, such as blogging. Being in comms, I’m 99.99% sure that Armstrong or her “people” gave the show background material with an overview of what she does. And, I’m also fairly certain there are Today staffers also in charge of further prepping the talent. Apparently either it was so over KLG’s head that she didn’t get any of it, or she didn’t bother to read it at all (or maybe it came in an email, which she couldn’t figure out how to read). And then, KLG awkwardly cut Armstrong off on a few occasions to question her judgment in posting the intimate details of her family life, including photos of her four year old daughter (a little hypocritical, IMHO, based on KLG's past <3 of talking about her own kids on air - but again, whatevah). Then there was a weird moment of uncomfortably out of place triumph for KLG as she thought she’d proven something very important when Armstrong tried to use an analogy about privacy/child safety and incorrectly assumed KLG lived in New York city, which apparently she does not.

Again, the potential danger of revealing information about our children on our blogs is not what this post is about.

As others have commented on SV Moms blog - and I whole heartedly agree - is that whether you believe KLG to be correct or not has little to do with how disrespectful she was as a "professional journalist" (those are mocking air quotes if you couldn't tell).

She was ill prepared for the segment, and for Heather specifically. IMHO that's very disrespectful to the guest and to an audience tuning in for more than just one person's self-admitted uneducated opinion. She didn't let her guest finish her answers, and interrupted with loaded questions. Maybe this is common for the show/KLG? I wouldn't know...I tuned in specifically because I knew there would be a mommy bloggers segment and I wanted to listen in and learn more.

There's times I find it very stimulating (and entertaining) when host and guest disagree because it's usually a very passionate and educational discussion. This, however, was not the case today as there was very little education allowed.

I don't know KLG. And I won't judge her personal beliefs and opinions (ummm, any more than I already did here). However, she is paid to be a professional journalist on a very credible outlet and I would have hoped she'd acted like one.

Maybe you want a look-see so you can formulate your own opinion?






UPDATE: For a gal that doesn't know how to use a computer and came off very "anti", her website http://kathieleegifford.com/ sure seems pretty polished -- and includes pics of her whole family in their home. Must be the OTHER Kathie Lee.

Where's that wagon?

I know I am probably a bandwagonner at this point on my AI selection, but whateveah.

I like little Archuleta but he always sounds like he’s singing to an audience made up of old folks home residents listening in for a special treat from their grandson. Brooke is nice, but I get bored listening to her. Same with Sayesha. Jason is just plain awkward and I think maybe he’s always high?

IMHO, and that’s a real H as someone that self-admittedly cannot carry a tune, “America” kicked off all the good peeps already except David Cook (and I don’t even think he has the charisma factor that Blake-that-ended-up-going-nowhere-from-last-year had). But that’s my pick and I’ll stick to it.

PS It is even possible that I might miss Kristi Lee Cook's glitter stick shadow? Cuz I think I do.

My own inconvenient truth

A client oh-so-kindly (not really) revealed to me the origins of my favorite treat (via pie chart no less).


While I am surprised I don’t have a snout, horns and hooves by now, I think this may have done the trick to rid me of this bad habit.

Addition: After my mom sent me a note thinking the ingredients in the pie chart went into Red Bull, I thought I should clarify. These are the ingredients that make up gelatin, and which hold together my previously-precious gummy bear and worm treats.

Social Networking (aka those annoying invitations to join so-and-so’s network)

Those of you reading that know me from work know that I’m an avid Facebooker (new word, I guess). To those of you out there that are in the family and friends category and are not already on Facebook, you’ve probably heard me encourage you to sign up or speak to its benefits – professionally and socially.

So far, from my family, I have one convert. My mom. The fearless tech pioneer that brought Rat Maze and Goldmine into our house via our Commodore PET 8032 computer in the early 80s. One of my aunts and several of my cousins are also on Facebook. I swear I know more about their lives now than I ever did growing up as a kid. It’s pretty great.

Anyway, if you’re wondering why you might want to look into joining a social network, like Facebook or LinkedIn (where I also have a profile but spend far less time) this PBS MediaShift blog post offers some general education on social networks (if you won’t just join Facebook to see pictures of my son’s rockin pirate ship birthday cake). For you "oldies", there's even http://www.boomer.com/!